Taming
children
By
Prem Prasad Sigdel
Taming children is an interesting way of living, understanding,
and engaging with them. It seems tedious yet enjoyable job that one can do with
of love and complaints. In fact, it is an affection that has been the guiding
principle between children and parents. Mainly, kids and their innocent
behaviors are amazing yet puzzling. It can not be expressed in words or phrases
because of its unique nature. One can use tricks like hide-and-seek, scolding
and scaring; emotions like anger, crying, and cuddling to take them in a right
track. Indeed, there is no bound of pleasure that parents have got in their
life. Therefore, children are the foundation of happiness, contentment, and
pleasure.
“Child is the
Father of the Man” is written by Wordsworth. No doubt, children are the sources
of happiness as they are innocent. They are so much gentle that we can not guess
at all due to their tricks of mistakes and excuses. The matter is that they do
not tell a lie; or they have been able to accept their mistakes being
compassionate. However, they try to oppose us being ready to be the loser; yet
they have been able to win the game. They are often able to win others’ heart
of being innocent. They often perform their talent of being concentrated which
we can take as a factor of entertainment watching them. Sometimes they pursue
us in a verbal circle by asking different questions one after another. They
always talk different things that we do not imagine at all. Sometimes they talk
about friends, surroundings, teachers, neighbors, and strangers. Mostly they
ask us to tell stories at bedtime. It makes us to read the stories for their
sake. When we don’t have content, it is difficult to assure them.
Children have strong volition when they want to do
something, or to eat something , so they force us to do such things that we can
learn in our life; neither would they weep and compel us to do such things. We
need to manage resources, like money and others for them being conscious on
time. They often think that their parents have been prosperous which is
innocent yet aspiring. We need to have resources like money to fulfill their
wishes at any time. One can understand
that there is no lack of resources with the parents when children are with
them. They often remember time what we have promised so we should have been
prepared for that.
They love playing very much which can be a tonic of
exercise for us to be healthy. They often want to go out for roaming so that we
can be free from idleness doing exercise with them. They do not go out without
us so we can visit different places with them to fulfill their wants. They made
us watch children shows in television and cell phone. Sometimes we must dance
with them for their favorite songs and rhymes. They made us buy nutritious food
items avoiding junk foods like noodles, biscuits, and chocolates. Children make
us eat different items like junk food, or something they like, because they
have tried that for different taste. When we deal with them they also make us
taste such items that we can find in the market being their friend.
Children make us dutiful because they have almost
same routine of eating and other daily chores. Children have fixed routine of
seeping and waking up which help us to be regular and healthy. When sleeping
with children adults or elderly would feel comfortable with love and affection.
They are significant means of pastime for adults and elderly people. We take
them as our duty to keep them neat and clean taking it as a pride of ours. They
express lovely words that catch up the attention of others easily. It’s amazing
that their questions are so innocent and we need to answer them at any cost.
They suppose that seniors have known everything for them; or they have equal
treatment to the elders without discrimination.
Sometimes we need to chide them; sometimes we need
to confess mistakes with them; and sometimes we need to do consensus between
us. We can establish a system of ours violating the standard rules of the
society. It means they are unique themselves having different habits and
interests. Sometimes they make promises for the next time which has been much incredible.
When they are the age of school going you need to be busy to take to and back
from school. We need to assist them for homework and project works which increase
our reading habit. We can play with them because they seek your involvement
when they are young. While playing, either at home or out of home, they explore
such things that you have never imagined. May be useful or useless, they have
made their playthings for themselves.
It’s a tedious job because people can not be free
from them; or they need to be the salve of children those who feel bored. They
should have followed and taken care in each step; therefore, it seems simple
yet full of complexities. Punctuality is a must so a lazy person can not do
such duty. Those who do not love children and their activities would be annoyed
very much. Some people would eat their food items instead of feeding them. It
is tedious job because the sitter is not recognized as a job. We need close
relatives like grandmother, grandfather, mother, and father to look after them.
Children often want to play which may disturb those who do not like games. They
are often dirty due while playing so they need frequent cleaning. They often
disturb the routine so it would be boring job. Sometimes they forced us to go
out when we don’t have interest. They make mess of everything so it takes times
to clean room. Some children might have developed bad habit of watching TV or
cell phone which may damage their eye sight or habits. It needs high care, like
cattle, due to their restless or naughty behavior. They force us to make
different pretensions. Sometimes we need to do false promises when they insist
to do unnecessary things or to eat unnecessary items. They may ask sensitive
questions that we cannot tell them at all.
In conclusion, children are the sources of happiness
and comfort. You can get full entertainment with them so that you should not
visit any places for refreshing. You will be busy all the time when they sleep
or wake up. You need to look after, run, play, giggle, talk, ask and answer questions,
express anger and happiness, or weep and laugh to make yourself happy. They are holistic exercise that can heal
numbers of diseases for adults and elderly.